‘What appeals to you about being a domme?’

As far as my frequently occurring frustrations go, this one is both particularly frequent and frustrating. Why? Well...

‘Can I be your sub?’

This particularly inane question comes in two main variants; either in the opening message, or after a few questions about me, with very little effort to engage with my answers. In short, if you're asking, then the answer is very probably no. D/s dynamics develop organically, over time. They take conversation and getting to know …

‘Ask me anything’

I have been answering quite a large volume of messages recently, and I thought I would write some posts on the things which bother me most often, and why. I would think I am not the only Domme who is bothered by these, but your mileage may vary. 'Ask me anything' whilst, in itself, a …